Published April 7 , 2025, at 7:00 A.M.
There is nothing particular that you need to do, other than building character and allowing God to heal and deliver you from your past trauma and generational curses. Most women are seeking love while being broken, hoping it will heal them. If you start a relationship despite being wounded, you will attract a broken man. You will only attract what you are. Women frequently struggle with being alone when coping with pain. Women who are emotionally wounded often seek attention from attractive or wealthy men to feel better and to be rescued from their sorrows, rather than working on their self-esteem and confidence and discovering their true selves. Depending on a guy to provide what you should first learn to provide for yourself is like playing with fire. The only person you should rely on to restore your broken heart is Jesus. Jesus would never use you, reject you, deceive you, or betray you. Jesus sees your suffering and is willing to offer you peace, but you must admit that you need help and do not have it all together; every decision you have taken thus far has only resulted in additional agony and shame.
Going from relationship to relationship looking for love is a problem; overstaying in a relationship that should have ended years ago is a problem; and having numerous sexual partners is a problem. Many women, it seems to me, prefer to say that they are victims rather than take accountability for their poor decisions.
You will remain stagnant if you cry, victim.
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(1 peter 5:7) casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you. When you accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior, you will see how quickly he heals you, how quickly you experience his love and comfort, and most of all, you will never have to beg God to love you. You don’t have to go through it alone, and you don’t have to feel terrible about being broken. You can be vulnerable with God and never feel like you’re doing too much, and you won’t ever have to conceal your imperfections from him. As long as you draw to Jesus with an authentic and sincere heart, he will accept you for who you are and meet you where you are. (Jeremiah 29:13) – And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.
You won’t regret it if you put your attention on God and yourself right now rather than a relationship. Instead of dating man after man, the goal is to wait on God and let Jesus bring the man he chose for you to you. You’ll exhaust yourself searching for the man of your preference. The guy Jesus personally selected for you will be a perfect fit for you and will fulfill all of your needs.
You must develop your character and become the woman of God that Jesus wants you to be because the man Jesus has selected for you has gone through his own process, grown in patience and character, and will not want or desire a woman who will try to break him because she is broken. For him to be able to do the same for her, he will require a woman who will love and invest in him.
Because of the indoctrinations you were taught and the horrible habits you formed as a result of your trauma and suffering, Jesus must cleanse you of all impurities from sin and the world. Spend some time with yourself; don’t be too harsh on yourself, but also make necessary corrections. You must cultivate a sweet spirit and become kind and modest. Real beauty is not outward; it’s based on what’s in your heart and what’s in your spirit.
You have grown so harsh and aggressive as a result of your wounds, which you must heal from. You must become a new creature in Christ in order to love rightly and fulfill your purpose and destiny, which will allow you to rescue others and receive everything Jesus has for you. You don’t need anything or anyone to prevent you from receiving blessings and all the aid you require. Greater things are coming for you. Your spouse is coming for you. Be patient and work on yourself. Trust God in this season; he has greater for you. Turn your heart to Jesus; he loves you.
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